2014 has been a stressful year for K-Pop fans. From relationship announcements , debuts and delays, to medical scares, deaths and the "death" of groups as we knew them, heartstrings are being tugged all over the Hallyu fandom. Here are a few suggestions on how to cope with these emotional experiences.

1. Bond with Like-Minded Fans - When your favorite idol groups and artists are impacted by scandals, it is almost guaranteed that you will see their character publicly questioned. Netizens and fans are entitled to individual opinons, but these opinions can influence additional stress when your desire is to simply show support. Seeking out fans, either online or in person, who feel the same way that you do will help you maintain a positive spirit during this time.
2. Remember the "Good Ol' Days" - Now is the perfect time to travel down memory lane! If you joined your favorite performer's fandom later in their career, going back to find older videos and articles about them can be well worth it. Dig up those old variety show clips on YouTube, this is the time to laugh!
3. Avoid Being Invasive - If you are lucky enough to live in a place where idols frequent, do not take the saesang (stalker fan) approach and invade their privacy. This is a vulnerable time in an idol's career and their lives should not be under (further) microscopic watch. 
4. Anticipate a Comeback - After taking time away from the limelight, an idol's label will plan a comeback. In some cases, if the damage from the scandal is severe enough, a comeback might not be an option. Luckily, this outcome is relatively rare. Be patient and anticipate a great comeback!

As supporters of some of the most talented performers of our time, fandoms have the potential to be like vitamins to Hallyu stars. The capacity to build them up in their time of need is a phenominal connection they share with their fandom. Stay positive - FIGHTING!