Bethenny Frankel and Jason Hoppy divorce is getting extemely unflattering. Jason and Bethenny had an "epic argument" after a divorce court hearing and then Bethenny called Jason "trash" and "lazy" and "stupid." The worst part; Bethenny said these nasty comments in front of daughter Bryn.

The divorce between Frankel and Hoppy has been extremely ugly, but saying thigs in front of their 3-month-old child is a whole other level of messy. Jason won't move out of their Tribeca apartment to be close to their daughter and financial wars continue in divorce court.

Frankel allegedy called Hoppy the atrocious names because of Hoppy's stubbornness in court. The ex RHONY just wants to settle and move on and thinks Jason is just being a baby.

A source close to Frankel and Hoppy said about the newest divorce blowup:

"The argument took place in their swanky Tribeca apartment. She also said Jason was lazy and stupid, because Jason doesn't have a regular full-time job."

The argument caused Jason's lawyer to file documents in the ongoing custody dispute over Bryn.

Hoppy recently told Frankel that he didn't want Bryn to appear on her upcoming talk show, after cameras wre rolling with Bryn in their multi-million dollar apartment. Bethenny was forced to film in her bedroom instead of in the common spaces of the NYC home.

"He doesn't want Bethenny to have Bryn in the audience, or do pre-taped segments for the show. He just doesn't feel that their daughter should be on display on Bethenny's talk show," a source said.

And one insider says Hoppy is careful about what he says around their daughter. "Jason has always been very, very careful to never say anything negative about Bethenny in front of Bryn, the source said, adding that Jason believes Bethenny does not play by the same rules.

An eyewitness says Frankel arrived to court looking frail, tired, and underweight, while ex-husband Hoppy was "tan, put together, sharp and well rested." Hoppy was still wearing his wedding band, but the "Bethenny Ever After" star was not.

The reality star turned talk show host has plenty reason to be exhausted these days.  Looking after a three year old, running a multimillion dollar empire, and starring in multiple television shows can't be easy for the native New Yorker.  Adding a messy, heartbreaking, publicized divorce to the mix... Frankel looks less like her formal glamorous self and more in desperate need of a nap.

Frankel, 42, split from husband Jason Hoppy, 41, a pharmaceutical sales exec, just before Christmas. The pair married in March 2010 on her reality show "Bethenny Getting Married" and filed for divorce in January 2013.

Bethenny is also asking the court for full custody of daughter, but Hoppy won't budge.

Bethenny will have to prove that she is a more fit parent than Hoppy, taking multiple parental tests and digging up reasons why Hoppy is not as fit to look after Bryn as she is.

She will have to argue that he should receive meaningful visitation but not make day-to-day decisions over the child.

In a past interview, Bethenny opened up about her divorce:

 "It's rough. I have to say, divorce is the most difficult thing you could ever go through in your entire life," said the "Bethenny" host.

Though at first Bethenny announced: "We have love and respect for one another and will continue to amicably co-parent our daughter who is and will always remain our first priority," but as the divorce gets more heated the Skinny-Girl CEO is clearly changing her tune.

She told morning anchor Greg Kelly On April 11th that divorce is a "brutal, unnatural situation."

"I never heard how excruciating it is," she admitted, adding that she "never thought" she'd be in this situation.