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RHOA Phaedra Parks and Apollo are not doing well on The Real Housewives Of Atlanta. They're relationship always seemed a little rocky to me and she may be joining Porsha soon, as the newly divorced RHOA.

Tonight on RHOA, Phaedra and Apollo's problems explode after allegations that he's cheating on Phaedra with Kendra Moore, and his intense insecurities in their marriage come to light.

Phaedra and Apollo meet to have a romantic dinner but right from the beginning it looks like this rendezvous will be anything but loving. Apollo says he never sees his wife anymore to which Phaedra quips back, "Are you jealous of your own children?" Ouch!

Apollo and all of the viewers felt the punch of Phaedra's words. Phaedra just had a second baby and it's obvious that Apollo feels a certain resentment towards his wife for her lack of attention towards him.  Men can often feel this way when their lover devotes all of their attention towards their children. But Phaedra also has a business to run, exams to take, and a reality show to film, taking up even more of her precious time.

The tension is palpable between husband and wife from the beginning of their conversation but only gets worse when 'textgate' enters their dinner table.

Phaedra tells him point blank not to text her friends, aka Kendra Moore. Apollo doesn't take Phaedra's bossiness lying down and he makes it clear he's a grown man, not giving in to her demands. Bad move Apollo!

When Apollo refuses to promise a blood oath that nothing like this will happen again, Phaedra only gets angrier in the only way a true southern bell shows her rage.

Phaedra Parks, always the lady, does not resort to yelling. She just warns him she's 'gonna cut out his tongue.'

And Phaedra is right in this situation. No husband should be texting your friends. And Kendra Moore is not even her friend; she's her sworn enemy! And Apollo should hate her as well considering she stole their Donkey Booty work out video idea!

BFF Kandi agrees, "Kenya and Apollo should've known better than to be texting each other. Both of them were wrong."

There's a bunch of red flags here. This relationship needs a hero to step in and fast or the women will be toasting 'Cheers to getting to getting to know the new PHAERDA' before she can say 'Donkey Booty.'