Joe Manganiello and Sofia Vergara are allegedly contradicting each other's plans for their upcoming wedding. The "Modern Family" actress is reportedly pushing for a huge and extravagant wedding ceremony while her husband-to-be wants a low-key affair.

"Sofía wants a huge wedding jam-packed with all the A-list stars she knows," said one insider to Ok! magazine "But Joe just wants to do it in private - and already the differences are starting to show in the whirlwind pairing of Sofía Vergara and Joe Manganiello."

While fans are looking forward to Joe Manganiello and Sofia Vergara's wedding, their plans are allegedly causing a friction in their relationship.

The "Magic Mike" actor reportedly wants to steer clear from a grandiose wedding that he even considers eloping.

"Joe would elope if she agreed," added the informer. "He's just not into that whole big wedding circus and would much prefer if it was just the two of them doing it.

However, Joe Manganiello's plans didn't sit well with the brunette beauty who wouldn't tie the knot without her family, friends, and her 23-year-old son.

"But there's no way Sofía'd marry without her family there, especially her son, and Joe's just going to have to back down on this one," the insider said.

Recently, Sofia Vergara said that they're finding it difficult to decide on a wedding date because of their filming commitments.

"He's shooting and promoting Magic Mike and I'm promoting my movie with Reese Witherspoon, so we're kind of busy so we're trying to do it maybe [this] fall, this summer is too busy," the "Modern Family" actress said.

Meanwhile, Joe Maganiello might be after a simple event because he wants to focus on creating a family with Vergara.

After two months of searching, the two have reportedly found a surrogate for their baby. The unnamed woman is reportedly close to the actress.

"Sofía is friends with this woman and spends a lot of time with her so she can watch the pregnancy firsthand as if it were her own," said an insider to InTouch magazine.

The insider didn't reveal Sofia Vergara's reason for refusing to carry the baby herself. Nonetheless, the actress is reportedly excited because she knew from "day one that Joe is the perfect dad."