Kate Gosselin and Jon Gosselin might be starting a custody battle over their kids after Kate if furious over Jon Gosselin's recent shooting at a paparazzi at his Pa. home. But Kate goes on 'Bethenny' and expresses her soft stop for Jon. When Bethenny Frankel askes Kate about Jon "Has he snapped? Do you still love him?" Kate Gosselin had a very sweet reaction, even though she previously said she would take action to protect her kids.

Gosselin's answer to Bethenny's question was: "Somebody once told me that if you feel sadness and empathy and pity for someone the root of that is love. I feel like the person that I married nearly overnight was not that person anymore."

She continues about teh kid's realationship to their father Jon, "Without going into to much detail we are making the best of it. I definitely want them to know that I did not want to hinder or stand in the way of that relationship with him," she explained.

"So I do everything I can to foster that because it is important and you have to have the ability to remove judgement and ugliness from that. The best thing for my kids is that I give them the opportunity and the ability to continue that relationship. When they are older if they don't want to do it anymore or whatever decisions they make that is their business. For now, my job is to foster that bond."

Kate Gosselin previously said she is 'worried about her kids' after Jon Gosselin fired a warning shot at a photog, and who can blame her? When TMZ asked Kate how she feels about the wellfare of their kids, she replied that she is indeed concerned about her children being around her ex Jon Gosselin. And then when Gosselin was asked about what she will do about it, Kate was quick to reply 'It is taken care of.' 

When the incident first broke Kate Gosselin said 'nothing surprises me' to a TMZ photograoher who first told Kate about the news.

Here's what happened: Kate Gosselin's ex hunsband Jon Gosselin, co star of 'Jon and Kate Plus 8,' pulled a gun on a female photographer yesterday and then fired a warning shot to get the photog off of his porperty. Gosselin, who was the star of a TLC the reality 'Jon and Kate Plus 8' pulled the gun out when the female photographer chased him down to his Pennsylvania cottage on Friday and trespassed on his land. Did Jon go too far and is he losing is mind living in the boondocks of Pa.?

Jon Gosselin, who now lives as a waiter in Beckersville, Pa., approached the photographer with a gun and fired a warning shot to scare the woman who was trying to get a picture of the ex reality star. Gosselin followed her all the way back to the main road to make sure she was no longer trespassing on his territory, firing a shot in the air.

The photog made a police report that Jon fired a shot in the air, but she declined to request that police take action. She was the one who was actually in the wrong trespassing on his land, so of course she took no further action as she could be in legal trouble as well if she took any further steps in getting Jon in trouble.

Since Jon split up with Kate he's been living a secluded life in the outskirts of Pennsylvania, living as a waiter at a restaurant.

He told "Entertainment Tonight" about living the simpler life:

"At first I was nervous because I was like, 'How are people going to react?'" Gosselin said. "But then I'm thinking 'Well it's fun and I get to talk to people.' And they technically already know me ... they're like 'Are you the guy?' I'm like 'Yeah, I'm the guy.'"

"You learn from your mistakes," he said. "That's what builds you to who you are today."

"I've hit rock bottom about 20 times, and then I bounce back again," he told ET.

Jon also admitted that he doesn't "have a relationship with Kate," and that they primarily communicate through text and email saying 'I don't physically see her."

 Radar Online and numerous other gossip websites reported that Jon Gosselin's child support payments to his ex-wife Kate are in arrears for the amount of $3,557.06. Is the ex reality star crumbling before our eyes?